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Pendulum dowsing is an ancient practice that many people use to seek intuitive guidance on personal matters, including relationships

While some dismiss it as superstition, experienced users swear by its capacity to access deep intuitive knowledge

Used mindfully, this simple tool helps you decode emotional undercurrents and align your romantic actions with your truest self

The first step requires only a pendulum

It can be a crystal pendant, a metal charm, a brass key, or any small object tied to a thread

For accurate readings, the pendulum needs to move without resistance

Select the one that resonates with your energy — your intuition will guide you to the right tool

Energies from previous handlers can interfere, so cleansing is essential

Other methods include burying it in salt, ringing a bell nearby, or rinsing it with moonwater

After cleansing, hold the pendulum between your thumb and forefinger, letting it dangle freely, and set your intention

You may whisper: "I invite only clear, truthful, and loving guidance through this pendulum."

You must define your unique movement codes for Den haag medium affirmation, negation, and uncertainty

Every person’s pendulum responds differently, so you must calibrate it

Hold your arm steady and ask, "Show me yes." Observe the direction of the swing — it may move back and forth, side to side, or in a circular motion

Then ask, "Show me no," and note the difference

Finally, ask, "Show me maybe or unclear," which may appear as a small, hesitant motion or no movement at all

Write down these signals so you can refer to them later

To receive accurate answers, your questions must be open, unbiased, and free of assumptions

Don’t ask questions that trap the pendulum into confirming your hopes or fears

Swap "Will we stay together?" for: "Is this relationship supporting my authentic growth and peace?"

Or pose: "What lesson is this relationship asking me to learn?"

The more open and reflective your question, the more meaningful the response will be

Use it to identify hidden fears or unresolved wounds affecting your relationships

Query: "Am I afraid to fully open my heart?" or "Is this partnership uplifting or draining my energy?"

The pendulum’s swing is only half the message — your inner reactions are equally vital

The pendulum often acts as a mirror — it reflects what you already know deep down but may be avoiding consciously

Hold space for whatever arises — don’t force or wish for a specific result

If the response seems unclear or contradictory, take a break, breathe deeply, and return to the practice later

Your inner vibration directly influences how the pendulum responds

If you’re anxious, angry, or overly eager, the results may be skewed

Rebalance your energy with a short grounding meditation or by touching natural surfaces

It doesn’t tell you what will happen — it reveals what is true now

It offers insight, not commands

Let the pendulum help you understand yourself — don’t use it to dodge hard choices

If the response suggests separation, respect it

If it suggests healing work, commit to it

It doesn’t choose for you — it helps you see clearly enough to choose for yourself

Maintain a log of your pendulum inquiries and outcomes

Note the questions you asked, the responses you received, and any subsequent events or insights

As you review past entries, you’ll notice recurring themes and growing accuracy

It’s not the pendulum getting smarter — it’s you becoming a better receiver

Your deepest truths about love reside inside you, not outside

It’s a soft bridge between your conscious mind and your intuitive core

With patience, respect, and honesty, it can be a supportive companion on your journey toward love, understanding, and emotional freedom